We decided to have Emma to attend the birth of our second child,
after I experienced significant trauma and months of sickness after
birthing my first child. I really just wanted someone there who knew my
history and could advocate for what I needed to happen with the midwives
and doctors if necessary.

Having Emma be involved from early in the pregnancy right through to
well after the birth exceeded our expectations in so many ways. We could
not have anticipated how much Emma's knowledge and support assisted us
to prepare for the reality of birth, and how much this preparation
assisted us to remain calm and confident throughout the birthing process.

Her presence at the birth itself made such a difference. I'm not going
to say it didn't hurt, but on a practical level, Emma knew just what to
do to make the pain more manageable and was by our side the entire time
doing the hard physical side of birth support, like massage and
physically holding me up. This really freed my husband to provide more
of an emotional loving support, like holding my hand and talking to me,
which meant he was able to enjoy the birth much more than the first time
around.

On an emotional level, we both felt calm and strong knowing we were
fully supported by someone we trusted, freeing us to really connect with
each other through the birthing process. We believe this has made a
lasting positive impact in our bonding with our daughter and also in our
relationship with each other in the early stages of caring for our new baby.

I think just about everyone would benefit from having a doula attend
their birth - and I would highly recommend Emma as someone with the
skills, compassion and strength to help you have the birth you want.

Melissa and Ashley Cox
John Hunter Birthing Centre